Are you open to connect via:
Unidentifiable email account
Zoom call (audio only), use alias account
Share baby photos, interests and hobbies
Identifiable email account
Zoom call (face to face with identification
Share adult photos, and/or extended family, share ancestral information/family tree
Includes above levels plus in-person visits
Conversations including child as age appropriate
Social media connection (if yes, which platform)
Questions to ask your donor during any level of contact
Are you willing to provide medical updates? If so, how often?
Upon change of health status
When initiated by recipient parents
Does your extended family know about your donation?
Would you like a flexible arrangement or a more formal arrangement?
Would you like an attorney to outline roles and responsibilities?
Would you prefer a third-party facilitator be the go between for first contact?