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read moreGiving Wisely Matters When people decide to become donors, most do so with kind and generous intentions. They want to help someone experience the joy of becoming a parent. It’s a beautiful act of giving, and it can change lives. But what…
read moreOwn your story. Don’t let it own you. I wrote this note to myself on February 2016, as I was uncovering layers of my complicated story. But the credit of “owning our story” goes entirely to my daughter Jade, from a day…
read morehttps://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-xx6wf-187a801 International Donor Conception Awareness Day (IDCAD) is coming up on April 27, 2025, and in this episode, I’m sharing how you can get involved in this growing global movement. Whether you’re a parent, a donor-conceived person, a professional, or simply an…
read moreI was born into contradiction. Actually, I was born as an adoptee, and that gave me the ability to hold two seemingly opposing truths at the same time. Dialectical thinking isn’t something I learned in a psychology textbook—it’s something I’ve lived. It’s…
read moreThe night of the verdict, I sat down with my husband to play chess. I needed a distraction, something to pull me out of my head. I thought, this will help. It didn’t. I made a few bad moves late in the…
read moreI don’t know why, but I had a feeling about this jury summons. The night before, I was already cranky about going. My husband even checked online, just in case it had been canceled at the last minute. No luck. I had…
read morehttps://www.podbean.com/media/share/pb-z3fxa-175027c In this special episode, fertility counselor Jana Rupnow invites Dr. Diane Tober, a medical anthropologist and associate professor at the University of Alabama, to discuss the intricate dynamics of egg donation. Dr. Tober delves into her research on egg donors and…
read moreNarrative Identity Grows with Your Kid It’s not just your kids bodies that change as they age—their minds and the stories they tell themselves about their lives evolve too. This concept, called narrative identity, is the personal story we all create to…
read moreThe Foundation of Your Life Story is Shaken Our narrative identity is like a house built on a foundation. If you’ve believed one version of your story your whole life, finding out it’s not true, or incomplete, can feel like the foundation…
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